Visiting the cemetery

It is vital to regularly visit and pray at the graves of loved ones.

The body lays waiting for Christ’s Second Coming when on that day the body and soul, separated at death, will become one again. Therefore it is important not to forget the deceased.

By tending to loved ones graves it is a reminder that death is a reality and part of the journey towards everlasting rest, if prepared spiritually. Remembrance of death is actually beneficial – it encourages repentance, a change of heart and love towards God. It also brings joy to the deceased person as the prayers read still assist them with their Salvation.

Attending the grave

Orthodox graves tend to be simple. Usually there is a small box/cabinet at the foot or head of the grave where items like oil, matches, wicks, incense and icons can be stored.

Things to do when visiting a grave:

·        wash and clean the grave of dirt and dust;

·        place fresh flowers;

·        light the kantilia and leave it burn;

·        burn incense and make the sign of the Cross;

·        read the ‘prayer for the deceased’ and any other prayers.

Regularly attending graves also encourages a person to remember their loved one and admire their good qualities. As modern life can be quite hectic, tending to graves forces one to take some time out and focus on what’s actually important, their spiritual well-being and Salvation.